It was the day before our contractor Andy was supposed to start the tiling the kitchen floor. What happened next is pretty much a great example of what happens when you’re married for a long time.
Me – “So James…” sitting down on the couch next to my husband.
My husband – “I am not taking back the floor tiles Alex.” (I hadn’t even eluded to the subject of floor tiles by the way).
Me – “Ok hear me out. If we put these in, I will regret it and it will be a huge mistake.”
My husband – “Alex. I am not taking back the floor tiles.”
Me – Silence.
My husband. Gets up. Walks to the front room where the floor tiles are. Comes back.
“You can call Andy and tell him.”
He didn’t speak to me for the next 48 hours. Aside from the next day where he loaded up 700 lbs of floor tile to the back of our truck and we drove to the tile store to return them, he turned to me in the truck and said “Go return them.”
Our kitchen that day looked like this. You see our renovation was unexpected. Read this post to understand what happened.
And in case you’re wondering what water damage does to your sub floor under your laminate or wood floors over time, it’s kinda looks like this.
Not only were our sub floors rotting, they were warping and slanting down around the walls towards the basement due to the water damage from the back entrance of our home (which goes right into the kitchen). All of our sub floors were replaced in this kitchen renovation.
I don’t blame my husband for being mad. In fact if you’re reading this you’re probably like “Girl, I would have divorced you.” I take full accountability for this fiasco. And the reason it happened to begin with is a very simple fact: I hate tiled floors in kitchens.
I am a hardwood girl. I love wood floors. The older and messier the better. Wide planks. That feeling that you’re in some farmhouse in the middle of nowhere and you know some Toronto hipster would pay a fortune for the old barn boards type of floor. Imagine a whole beautiful one level open floor flowing through to the kitchen from your living room without some jarring break for tile. My experience with kitchen tile is reflective of the kitchen tiles from the 80’s. The creamy brown, swirly pattern, builder grade, ugly square tiles that dominate so many suburban homes. It’s the tile equivalent of parquet flooring.
However, four dishwasher leaks – FOUR – in various homes, all from different appliance brands and four experiences of seeing what water does to hardwood and laminate vs what it does to tile (the answer to the tile part is that it does nothing), there was absolutely no way we were putting wood, laminate or even the mystical new unicorn of floors, waterproof vinyl in this kitchen. So against my will due to that awful thing called logic, I was forced to choose floor tiles.
These were the original tiles we settled on. We wanted a shade of grey. Some light cozy grey.
And at first we had 2 samples of them. Same brand, one was just a shade darker.
Amongst the greys, the middle tile (which is the one we wound up choosing) looked very neutral and grey in person. Until it wasn’t.
The day before the floor was supposed to go in, I opened up a pack of the floor tile and started to lay it out on our kitchen floor to see how it would feel. It’s not like I could have done that in the 3 weeks they were sitting in our front room or anything.
Tried it in a different light.
Grey tile? What grey? It’s beige
I had successfully chosen the 12 x 24 version of the 80’s beige brown pattern tiles that I despised. It looked like a mist of dust was swirling through it. I was so mad at myself for this, I honestly thought “How is this possible?” I had hundreds of kitchens pinned for inspiration and above all people, I should have known better. There was no way these were going in our kitchen. The tiles were returned, I had a rightfully angry husband and an understanding contractor who by fluke was thankful for the extra week I had given him as he was behind on another job. Then I went on a mission to find new grey tile.
I have no joke, easily over 300 photos of different floor samples on my computer. I went *everywhere*. Several major local tile stores, every home improvement store and brought back a sample everything from grey to black tile.
Oh yes we washed them to see what would happen when real life happens in your kitchen.
It was kind of kismet too as the day I went to the store, my friend Becki from the Uncommon Law who knew all about this kitchen insanity and who has very similar aesthetic tastes to me, suggested I check out a tile brand called Ceragres.
Well wouldn’t you know it, all the samples from Ceramic Tile world that I had narrowed down, happened to be from them. The other stores did not carry this brand. Grey tile, for the record is crazy. Because it can look blue to silver to beige to taupe depending on the light.
The thing that’s really great about Ceramic Tile World is they have cabinet doors and counter top samples that you can walk around with and see how they look in different lights next to the tile. We didn’t have our cabinet fronts at this point so that was immensely helpful.
My husband met me there on his lunch break and he selected the 2 tile samples that I had narrowed down as part of my top 3 but I didn’t tell him which ones they were, so that was a good sign that we were on the same page. We took them home and put them all up against our butcher block counter tops and in different areas of our kitchen and home light overall to see how they looked.
This is the Ceragres Slab tile in Silver.
This is the Ceragres Slab tile in Coke.
Then I forgot the name of this brand but I really like the look of it as well. It however photographs much better than it looks in person though. It was ceramic, had a sheen on it and it looked really cheap compared to the porcelain Ceragres which looked like natural stone that you would find in a Plain English style kitchen such as the ones from deVOL Kitchens.
After much conversation and even a Facebook poll in our town’s local home decor group (no really) we chose the Silver.
Choosing grout was another story. Luckily that was a little easier. We went with Dove Grey from Tec grout. That’s the sample on the right in the photo below.
And now? I effing love this floor. LOVE.
It makes me happy when I walk into our kitchen. It masks dirt so well which is really important to us as this is a very high traffic area of our home, due to the back door entrance going right into the kitchen. Water spots don’t show at all after they dry. I cannot praise it enough. In fact I love it so much, that it has completely changed how I feel about tile floors in kitchens. I can’t even imagine not having this tile in ours.
In order to save your marriage or your sanity, may I present:
LESSONS LEARNED WHEN CHOOSING A KITCHEN FLOOR TILE (or any tile for that matter)
- Bring home as many samples of the tile as you can. Buy a case if you are able to. One little tile, will not show you the full pattern of that tile. You may get that one tile from the case that doesn’t have all the swirls and misty features that you may or may not want.
- Test out your tile in different lighting. Halogen will cause a different look than LED than daylight.
- If possible, have your cabinets, counter top and back splash available to how they all look. Otherwise known as a mood board.
- Put water on your tile. See how it dries. I have a friend who renovated her kitchen and while she loves her slate tiles, she hates that they show every drop of water on them. Not all tile is the same when it comes to this. If you have young kids or drink a lot of wine and are prone to spilling, you need to see how the tile will look when it’s being used vs how pretty and shiny it looks on a showroom wall.
- Pin photos of kitchens you love and looks you’re hoping to achieve. Bring them to an expert at the tile store. If you’re in the Toronto area, go to Ceramic Tile World and ask for Terry. He’s awesome and has the patience of a saint and made this happen for us.
- Photographs online will appear different from how the tiles will look in your own home. When I look at Ceragres site for the Silver slab tile wall they show, I don’t like it at all. It looks dark and harsh. In our kitchen, it’s warm and cozy. Even some of these photographs don’t show it the way it feels if you saw it in person. It’s just like grey paint. Lighting changes everything.
- Choose Porcelain over Ceramic tile if you have the budget for it. Ceramic tile can crack. Porcelain tends to be much tougher. And again, not all brands are equal. Check the depth of the tile, how it dips and arches when you’re looking at it horizontally as that will impact how your tile lays on the floor, depending on what tile layout you choose. This is also why choosing a good tiler is very, very, very important because they will know how to ensure the floor is level.
- Grout colour matters. A lot.
- Check store return policies. Some have a restocking fee if you change your mind. Ask me how I know.
- Don’t settle. Ever. Even at the risk of divorce.
I want to make clear that this post is NOT sponsored by Ceragres or Ceramic Tile World. We paid for it all on our own. We chose the Ceragres because we really liked the quality of their product and really appreciate the customer service that Terry offered at Ceramic Tile World. So in this complicated world of online reviews, I’d like to ensure that no one is swaying my voice here as lately more and more people are being skeptical of sponsored posts (I am going to get into that subject in a future blog post).
And if you have hardwood floors in your house that have lasted 25 years without any issue, I don’t even want to hear it. I’m kidding. I still love our floors. No regrets here.
PS – We still haven’t chosen a back splash. Or a range hood. Or a fridge. Namaste.