I asked one little innocent question on my Instagram awhile back. And that was for people to give me their honest feedback about their kitchen sinks. Did they have a double bowl sink or a single bowl sink? Did they love it or hate it? Pros and Cons?
Well, did people ever answer. If you ever want engagement on your Instagram photos, go ask people’s opinions on sinks or appliances, sort of like the unicorns that are counter depth single door refrigerators. Do these exist for people who don’t have 10K to spend on a fridge?
What led to that question was this. Since the previous kitchen renovation my husband James has been adamant about getting the IKEA DOMSJÖ double bowl farmhouse sink for a future renovation. By future I mean the accidental one we’re in the middle of now because the dishwasher broke and flooded the kitchen.
So this sink:
I was like hell no. I wanted an under mount stainless steel one bowl sink. Like we had at our old house:
This debate between us started to involve bartering future design decisions for the house. Will he build me a dining table or can we just buy one? Will he get his ugly blackout curtains in the bedroom vs my light airy ones? Can we get hardwood in the kitchen versus floor tiles?
He hated that sink above. Hated. Couldn’t stand washing dishes in it and having them dry on the counter. When he went to fill up his protein shaker cups with water or tried to wash his hands and saw meat thawing surrounded by dirty dishes, maneuvering around all of that drove him crazy. He also reminded me of how badly things went with that sink being that is was an under mount in the butcher block counter and why would I ever want to go through that again?
And I was like do you know what my life (a.k.a the cook in the family) is like with a double bowl sink? No?
Thus let me explain what life was like with our shitty small double bowl in the kitchen that I worked so hard to paint that had to be torn out (let me reiterate again, the dishwasher leaked and destroyed the kitchen, thus leading to us renovating the whole thing – completely unplanned by the way). This was that sink. It doesn’t look offensive in this highly staged and edited photo right?
Look closer. It’s getting smaller isn’t it? Feels like it should be in a toy kitchen.
And the laminate counter top was so old that the faucet was rotting into it due to water damage and taking the sink along with it.
What does the faucet have to do with it being a double bowl sink? Nothing. I just had to share the corresponding atrocity. But that’s just one of the many things I hated about that entire triangular counter/kitchen island. The real issue was lack of space for anything in the sink and on the counter around it, which led to my complete disdain for double bowl sinks in general.
In which case let me list all of the reasons I hated my double bowl sink.
- I couldn’t soak big trays or pans it.
- Super shallow.
- One side would fill up with dirty dishes faster than you could blink.
- The other side would always have something thawing in it for dinner.
- The dirty dishes went on the counter anyway and took up more space as there was not enough room for them to dry in one half of the sink.
- Did I mention the inability to soak big pans again? (Yeah this was my biggest issue with it).
Not convinced? Let me show you a real life honest photo from what our kitchen counter looked like when it was actually in use AFTER the dishwasher failed and was removed and what life was really like.
Maybe it will look more horrifying and kitschy in a Polaroid shot. Scroll up and then back down. That is the same counter as the first counter photo. Now, will you stop believing everything you see on the internet?
No one lives perfectly. No one. Even if it appears they do.
I get hives just looking at that now.
That was my life for easily 6 months. Well almost a year and a half really because even if the dishwasher was there, there was always more dishes to wash and they would be put on the counter to the left of the sink or in the sink. The counter top to the right side of the sink? That’s pretty much all the counter space I had to prep dinner on for a family of 4.
Every. Fucking. Day. Multiple times a day. It was the size of a cutting board.
This is the stuff that when you walk into a house while house hunting, that you need to pay attention to. Not the fancy wood floors or pretty wallpaper, but the things that impact your life on a daily basis. Kitchen counter top space and functional kitchen layout. If you want to see the kitchen “Before and After” I painted it, how I painted the cabinets and what’s behind me in that photo click here.
So at this point I was so disgruntled from the above that the thought of another double bowl sink was just out of the question. I loved our old single bowl sink. It was huge and held everything. It was the IKEA BREDSKAR sink (which of course has since been discontinued) but IKEA has new models to replace it. This one is called the NORRSJÖN.
And yes it comes in a Double Bowl.
But even that double bowl is just not big enough for the way I use my kitchen. I cook a LOT. My husband eats and trains like an athlete. Our girls seem to be growing non stop and the kitchen fridge is always being opened for more food. I needed what I affectionately call a high maintenance sink. My husband however was convinced I would love the DOMSJÖ.
The thing is, you could really debate this issue for years:
- Stainless steel vs porcelain sinks in general
- Apron front stainless vs porcelain in general
- Other material sinks in single bowl vs double bowl
- Under mount vs top mount
- What colour sink do you get?
- Sinks in islands vs in the counter
- Shallow vs deep sink
- Round sinks vs rectangular
Don’t even think about however, mentioning the 60/40 split sink. Under mount, apron front, stainless or not I would continuously stare at it and secretly think “Why is the line that divides the the sink not in the center of the sink?” Kind of like this Buzzfeed article about control freaks that feature images that cause me unnecessary stress. I don’t care how practical they are to use and how much people love them. Not happening.
So what won out in this battle between us? Well, practicality more than anything. Otherwise known as my husband.
What I mean by a practical decision is well, read my post about what it’s really like to live with a butcher block counter top. The very short version is that butcher block, water and under mount sinks are not friends. At least they haven’t been for us. And we were using butcher block counter tops again this time.
Yes I could have used Waterlox to coat around an under mount sink (as it works really well) but for me it’s not something I wanted to use on my butcher block overall. With this sink, I don’t have to worry about rotting faucets into the counter tops and water getting around the edges of the under mount seeping into the wood causing cracks. That kick ass matte black faucet by the way is from Delta – the Trinsic Single Handle Pull Down Kitchen Faucet – and it is phenomenal.
So what do I really think of the DOMSJÖ sink after having it for a month? That review is coming. But in the meantime I got to paint our main floor bathroom dark navy. Yessssss. Compromise.
The story to be continued…